[b]Hell Has No Fury But A woman's Scorn..I married my mother

787180 SG

Adrian is now happily married but he still gives ever month without fail $400 to his daughter by crediting his ex wife POSB account as ordered by the court but he does not geta chance to see his daughter.He is hoping his evil ex wife was was afflicted with Thalasimma major(a deadly blood disorder) to pass away so he can bond with his daughter and hopefully his equally cruel ex mum-in-law will not object to his taking back of his daughter.

Adrian is indeed grateful to PM Lee of Teck Ghee(Ang Mo Kio GRC) for changing the law to enable single pple 35years and above to buy 4 room and above HDB flats without the need to form nucleus family.If not for this change as approved by PM Lee,Adrian would have to sell his resale HDB flat at a great loss as demanded by hie ex wife who herself lived in a condo in Yishun but would want to get even with Adrian so as to make the divorce a long and painful ones...

I've met and informed Adrian that I posted his story on forum to let S'pore public be aware that such wicked mum-in-law and diabolic ex wife do exist in modern S'pore. Razz Razz Razz

Guardx SG

Another sad story, Wats the point of treating evil people like the wife so nicely when they walk all over you?

jojobeach SG

Yes, the story serves to remind SG men not be so deperado and go marry someone only after 3 short months.

Same goes to foreign brides.

My friend married a foreign bride, and she insist she migrate her whole family over. Now he has to support not only his own parents, but also her parents.

Short Ninja SG

I know someone who proposed to a girl on the first night while on a blind date.He was desperate alright but so was she cuz they were both already in their late 30s,that was 10 years ago and they are still happily married.Love is blind , desperate but got shiok oso lah.

787180 SG

Hi Guardx any gd ideas so we can assist Adrian to "slaughter' his evil ex-wife?I write out this real life story as Adrian is quite forgiving person but I personally feel he has been unfairly punished and bullied and this story goes to prove injustice does exist in modern Singapore.

Imagine the police refused to prosecute the ex-wife even though she made false police report that Adrian induced her to have sex and video-taped the act to force her to give up custody of the child and not the fight with him for the share of the flat,baring in mind she did not contribute a single cent to the matrimonial home as she herself co owns a condo at Orchid Park.She has the cheek to lie in court ahe did not eatn much but in actual fact she is a piano teacher on her own and also teaching at Yamaha,Cristofori,Kawai and now with a music school at Causeway Point

jojobeach SG

Why are you holding this grudge against his ex-wife as if she is your own ?
OR
Are you the other woman Adrian married ?

Does Adrian has shared custody of the child ?

The money that Adrian gives to the wife is FOR THE CHILD.
Just because his ex-wife is earning a good income, DOESN'T means Adrian won't need to contribute to the expense of the CHILD.
GET THIS STRAIGHT WILL YOU?

She co-owns the condo with who ? Adrian or her mom ?

The ex-wife got no CPF ? She didn't contribute to the flat using her CPF ?

You are letting the hatred cloud your good judgment my friend.

Either that, or the story is just a mockery.

That 35 year old sh!t affects not just people like Adrian. In fact, they shouldn;t have such tight policies in the first place, the minimum age should be LOWERED to 25 ! So single adults don't have to be FORCED to live with their PARENTS.

joyc SG

All well if ends well.

787180 SG

replies..Adrian's ex wife co owns the condo at orchid park with her own mother ie Adrain's ex evil mother-in-law.Ex wife is using part of her CPF to finance the condo..the greatest cheapskate thing is that he dared to demand from Adrian $3700 ailmony and 70% of Adrian's cpf when the marriage lasted , 1 year.This clearly shows that the ex -wife was out to draw blood or to spite Adrian for initiating the divorce.

The point even S'pore police and the Family Court let the evil women off so lightly whereas Adrian had to suffer humilitation at police's lock up.His ex wife bluntly ignored 5 times to attend Family Service Centre as per court order and even made false police report that Adrian 'raped" her and videotaped the sexual abuse to force her to give up custody.End result police only gave her a severe warning only...is this fair to Man?..Ask yourself bro....my aim of writing this story on behalf of Adrian is to draw s'porean attention to such injustice in modern S'pore Razz Razz Razz

jojobeach SG

You say part of her CPF goes to the condo, but you never say zero contribution to the flat.

The HDB is the matrimonial home. That means the wife has the right to that asset.
In other countries, it's the same. Matrimonial home needs to be divy up during a divorce.

The ex-wife can try to lay claim to anything, but it's up to the courts to decide who gets what.

Look, you think Adrian will be able to take better care of his daughter ?
How will you think it will affect his daughter if the mom dies.
Don't be so selfish. Think for the kid too.

Divorces are ugly. So stop giving us this one sided sh!t.

787180 SG

....The HDB flat was paid for all by Adrian and his parents/siblings but his evil wife wanted 79% of the house after living for < a year and she did not contribute a single cent to this so called matrimonial flat but instead her cpf went to pay the condo she co owns with her mum.

Want to invivte this woman to air her views..I understand she works in Symphony Music at Causeway point and can't even get along with the teachers there

jojobeach SG

I think you should really let her tell us her side of the story.
It's unfair to just have Adrian's version.

After all, humans are egoistic creatures, and they can be very vengeful and bitter when wounded.

But beware, you wouldn't know what can of worms you will be opening.

787180 SG

..That's an excellent suggestion..but I personally am aquainted with these 2 evil women...the younger one ie Adrian's ex wife is still working as piano teacher in a music school at Causeway Point...jojobeach...the honour goes to U to invite her to come and comments...she's working part time on every Wed night at the Music School there Razz

jojobeach SG

Since you are aquainted with these 2 "evil" women, why won't you go and talk to her yourself ?

787180 SG

I don't want to have dealings with such barbaric wicked women.I understand Adrian's ex wife is working in Symphony Music School at Causeway point...so my jojobeach can U have the honour to get this woman to have her side of the story..let the humble be elevated and the elevated be humbled..hopefully justice will be done to Adrian Razz Razz Razz

fymk SG

People with thalassemia major doesn't have a special pump which one can use at home. Thalassemia major sufferers actually have to get blood transfusion which can only be done in the hospital and placed on iron chelation therapy.

That is one discrepancy with the story.

jojobeach SG

Do you have her email ? I'll send her a request to come participate in this discussion.

787180 SG

Adrian is not even aware of the blood disease Thalsimissa until he was going ahead with the divorce and Ivy then disclosed she had this ailment so as to bolster her claims for ailmony and child maintenance of $3700.In fact during the courtship Mother-in-law led Adrian aside and disclosed that her daughter went for liposuction to rempove the fats in her tummy as she had a big tummy since young.In reality Adrian then realised the 2 criss cross in his ex wife's tummy was to remove her spleen as disclosed in the affidavit pursuant to the divorce.The fcat that Ivy without fail everyday including weekends and public holidays went to her mum's place at about 9am and return at night to the matrimonila flat at about 10pm raised doubt in Adrian's mind.He is not medically inclined and speculated that Ivy probably needed to go back to her mum's condo was to secretly pumped blood.Hence there is nothing ficititious but the truth of the story was reported in the Singapore Family Court where Adrian attended about 15 court appearances ranging from child custody,PPO(Police Protection Order),divorce ,request for child visitation ,divorce and ancilliary matters.... Razz Razz Razz

jojobeach SG

If Ivy has the thalassemia trait, then the ob/gyn would have suggested that the couple seek genetic counseling and testing.

If Adrian were to be a carrier of the trait (not afflicted, but a carrier), the child would have a 50% chance of having thalassemia. The only way to find out if he is a carrier is to be tested. He would KNOW that she has thalassemia.

Either he's full of sh1t , or you are.

And I sincerely hope you are not the little girl's step-mom, considering how vindictive you are.

Remember this, the child will be a carrier of this trait.
If anything happens to the mom and Adrian gets full custody, it is his RESPONSIBILITY to inform the child that she is a carrier.

If you are so religious and forgiving, you need to let it go and STOP LYING.

787180 SG

TThe marriage was a scam right from the start initiated by a daughter and her mum.Why lie to Adrian that it was liposunction about the 2 criss cross on her body instead of being frank that it was a blood disease.Both mum and daughter insisted that it was to remove fats only till the divorce state that it was revealed in the affidavit that it was Thalsemissa.

Adrian was perectly healthy but Ivy the ex wife is a thalsemissa major so the young child could be a carrier.I write this story after talking to Adrian and he fully agrees that it is ok to let the public be aware that there are such wicked.malicious women existing in S'pore and that the Women's Charter is skewed towards the protection of women is definitely outdated in today's context and it;s due for review ,if not ,more women will use as weapons to get back at their estranged husbands...jojobeach...looks like U're related to these 2 malicious women if not why keep siding them.For me I've nothing to gain but just want to highlight the injustice done to my friend Adrian

jojobeach SG

Scam ?
What scam ? You think marriage is a trade ?
Too bad Adrian didn't kick the tires hard enough before he closes the deal.
There's No refund policy for defective wives.
And No lemon law to protect stupid gullible men.

Now, what happened to " In sickness and in health" ?

He wants to highlight injustice done ? For what, the $400/month he pays for his own child's expense ?
What then is justice? Pay nothing ?

What you are doing is not highlighting injustice.
You are committing SLANDER to his ex-wife and ex-mother in law.

I don't need to be related to them two women, to be telling you this story AND Adrian is crap.

You just need to provide a more credible story, and I'd be saying Aye anytime.

And when I say credible, I mean this case may be real.
But if you believe Adrian is not trying to lie his sorry arse outa this lemon deal, you're really gullible too.

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